When a loved one is diagnosed with dementia, it can feel like the relationship has to change – and it does. But change doesn’t mean disconnection. In fact, shared experiences can become more important than ever. The right family activities for dementia patients can support communication, lift spirits, and strengthen your bond in new and meaningful ways.
What Makes a Dementia-Friendly Family Activity?
Not all activities are suitable for those living with dementia. Here’s what to look for:
- Familiarity – does the activity relate to something from their past?
- Simplicity – can it be enjoyed without needing instructions or memory recall?
- Sensory engagement – does it involve sight, sound, smell, or touch?
- Flexibility – can it be paused or adapted if needed?
With those principles in mind, let’s explore some easy-to-plan, dementia-friendly family activities.
At-Home Ideas
- Create a Memory Book: Gather family photos and ask gentle questions about people and places. Let your loved one flip through at their own pace.
- Have an Old Movie Afternoon: Classic films or shows from their youth can be comforting and spark recognition.
- Sort Cards or Buttons: Sorting by colour or size is both relaxing and cognitively stimulating.
Out and About
- Visit a Garden Centre: The calm, colourful environment is ideal for sensory enjoyment.
- Quiet Café Outings: Familiar routines like “tea and cake” can bring joy and connection.
- Take a Scenic Drive: A short car ride through familiar areas often evokes stories and calmness.
Care Home Dementia-Friendly Family Activities
- Group Arts or Crafts: Painting or seasonal decorations allow creativity and expression.
- Pet Therapy Sessions: Many care homes offer visits from therapy animals – an excellent source of comfort.
- Read Aloud or Listen to Audiobooks: Choose a gentle narrator or a beloved book from their youth.
Digital Activities
- Video Call with Grandkids: A familiar face – even virtually – can make a world of difference.
- Digital Photo Albums: Create a rotating slideshow of meaningful images.
- Music Apps: Use apps like Spotify to play familiar songs that calm or energise.
Planning Tips for Success
- Choose the right time – many people with dementia feel best earlier in the day
- Limit distractions – turn off the TV or other background noise
- Prepare your materials ahead of time – reduces frustration for everyone
- Be ready to adapt – if something doesn’t work, try again another day
Signs an Activity Is Working
- Smiles, singing, or humming along
- Calm attention and eye contact
- Verbal expressions, even if short
- A willingness to participate again
When Things Don’t Go to Plan
Some days are harder than others. If your loved one becomes agitated or tired, don’t push through. Switch to something more comforting – like sitting quietly or offering a hand to hold. Just being there is enough.
Family Support at Crouched Friars
At Crouched Friars, we believe families are central to our residents’ wellbeing. Our team works to support and guide you with dementia care activities that feel natural and meaningful. Whether you’re planning a visit or joining a group session, we’re here to help you make it count.
Keep Building Bonds
Even as memories fade, the power of love, touch, laughter, and presence remains. Through simple, thoughtful activities, you can continue building moments of connection that truly matter.